<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4975494953958887930</id><updated>2012-02-15T23:08:25.508-08:00</updated><title type='text'>My life</title><subtitle type='html'></subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://lakslife.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4975494953958887930/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://lakslife.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>Lakshmi Balasubramanya</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17780910671785253586</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>1</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4975494953958887930.post-6561943024812781805</id><published>2011-08-19T11:29:00.000-07:00</published><updated>2011-08-19T12:05:36.450-07:00</updated><title type='text'>MIL coming home!!!</title><content type='html'>Ajeya says that he wants to call his mom home to be with us for a weekend. I have to tolerate her. She can be really nasty and try to act up. She may try to say that I do not cook enough or that&lt;br /&gt;I have not been brought up well or some nasty thing. I feel like questioning why I should tolerate her..She is a very very nasty women who has no affection for any one. Extremely selfish and horrible..&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It is OK for her to insult my mom but it is not OK for me to insult her..&lt;br /&gt;She always says (and wants to believe) that her daughter is better than me..&lt;br /&gt;She only has expectations from me and all the affection and everything is for the daughter..&lt;br /&gt;She wants me to be like a servent for her..&lt;br /&gt;cook for her, Ajeya should not help me, I should keep the house clean, I should work my ass off&lt;br /&gt;while she and Ajeya just sit and chit chat..thats what she ideally wants&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My parents have never been mean to Ajeya but his folks have never been good to me..&lt;br /&gt;All this make me feel like I am in some sense inferior than him and that I am supposed to take all this crap from them..&lt;br /&gt;But then again..I feel I do not deserve this bad behavior ..&lt;br /&gt;Its not fair!!!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;She has only shut her mouth after I shouted at her on the phone..and now..we should call her here..rather we are "supposed to" call her here and ..treat her well..&lt;br /&gt;why?&lt;br /&gt;what about she was "supposed to" treat me well..&lt;br /&gt;and BTW who makes these rules?&lt;br /&gt;Why is the women always the one in trouble??&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/4975494953958887930-6561943024812781805?l=lakslife.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://lakslife.blogspot.com/feeds/6561943024812781805/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://lakslife.blogspot.com/2011/08/mil-coming-home.html#comment-form' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4975494953958887930/posts/default/6561943024812781805'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4975494953958887930/posts/default/6561943024812781805'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://lakslife.blogspot.com/2011/08/mil-coming-home.html' title='MIL coming home!!!'/><author><name>Lakshmi Balasubramanya</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/17780910671785253586</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry></feed>
